Signs that Your Man is Likely to Cheat

Remember the first time when your man was still trying to win your heart? It's as if he was capable of doing everything for you, as if he was always at your mercy. He had his eyes set only for you. He didn't have to swear about his feelings. You felt how intoxicated he was to you how passionately in love with the sweet damsel that you were! Oh, and remember how flattered you were?

With some exceptions, there really exists a certain period when a man's faithfulness is intact. It's the so-called natural monogamy period. Most often, that is when he is first in love. It's the time when the only object of his attention is his one and only love, when his only focus is the woman he adores. In all probability, he may have fantasies about big-breasted and fair-skinned women, game bar girls or friendly colleagues on the job, but very rarely--unless he has a strong urge for sex--does he act on his fantasies while he is in a relationship with the woman he adores dearly.

The natural monogamy period can exist for years or can also be short-lived. It all depends on the situation or condition. In Western countries, non-monogamous relationships occur even just after months of engagement or marriage. But it does happen--this demise of the natural monogamy period, for men, especially.

What Makes It Easier For Men to Become Infidels

There are basically two conditions that encourage infidelity in a man, according to an expert. This has something to do first, with his lifestyle and second, high-risk condition.

In addition to exposure, a man may be encouraged to become infidel when he is faced with high-risk circumstances such as:

"My wife and I have been married for a year now. But she still can't shrug off the feeling that she now has to live on her own, without her parents beside her. Until now she often goes home and stays with her parents because she says she misses them. She stays there for days or sometimes, for a week."

"She enjoys shopping with her friends or likes to play cards with women friends."

"My co-worker just broke up with her boyfriend and I'm her closest male friend. When she pours her heart out, I want her to feel better so it's but natural to invite her to some place where she can unwind. "

"My wife doesn’t like bowling and I do. So I end up going out with a woman-friend who loves the same hobby that I love."

Each of those revelations comes from faithful men who ended up being unfaithful. What do such revelations imply? Simple. That some women do not pay attention to their men and this lack of attention often leads men to hang around and look for substitutes.

Another high-risk circumstance that should send a woman to think twice is when a man says: "I have to stay late in the office or I'm having a conference this weekend" or something to that effect. When a man starts to enjoy working in the office instead of going home to his family, or when the weekend meetings become prevalent, the relationship may be on its way to disaster. So often do we hear of an office affair between the boss and his secretary, the manager and his assistant, the businessman and the co-worker who accompanies him to a business trip. Familiarity can induce them to emotional bonding, and later, to sexual intimacy.    

So there, your man may be faithful to you, but if faced with such high-risk conditions, he may be lured to do the inevitable. As they say, no man remains a saint forever.