Your Man’s Lifestyle Causes Infidelity

What is his job? What's his position? How about the kind of life he leads? If his job involves interacting with clients, you can bet on him to explore new sights. In the normal course of work that brings him together with interesting, attractive women, there is the obvious possibility that he will succumb to a casual affair. This notion is based on a psychological principle called "mere exposure effect" documented by psychologists.

What the idea is all about is that emotional bonding is expected between two persons who are always in contact with each other. Psychologists noted that mere exposure to someone else can spark liking and may end up loving that person. "Mere exposure doesn't generate physical attraction, but it does very much enhance emotional unity. And from there, it's not a very big leap to a physical connection." Ergo, if women are always around your man in the workplace, it's virtually impossible for him not to think about screwing, the experts noted.

If your man is engaged in sales, be aware of how good he sells his wares and ideas, and of course, himself. This guy is likely to find a pool of attractive women than a man who is based at home doing some computer or carpentry job. An editor in a large publishing house, who is always sought after by PR women, and the lawyer whether employed or practicing in private are also prone to temptations.

One man who has been faithful to his wife of eleven years despite exposure to attractive women finally gave in to temptation. "Most of my friends were doing it. They would brag about their women when we would have a drink in a bar. I was always thought of as being afraid of my wife. Hell, but no, I wasn't. I only wanted to remain faithful because I love my wife. And then one night in a bar I met this girl. She was open and warm and it was apparent that she wanted me, she was interested in me. She was really sexy and it was hard to say no when you knew she was implying what she really wanted. Not wanting to fool her, I told her my status; I even showed her my wedding ring. She asked me if I was happy. I did not answer her. Truth was, I was contented with my wife. She was not really perfect, she had her flaws and I must admit, I have some disappointments with our sexual life, but I did love her. And now, here was a beautiful woman trying to fill my wife's shortcomings in sex. She was willing; she was ready to give everything. I was half-drunk and feeling lonely. When she dragged me into my car, I knew I could no longer resist."

When his wife learned about it, she was angry as hell. She hit him, threw invectives at him. She was unforgiving. Later, the marriage went sour.

Aside from a man's exposure to women through his job, profession or the kind of friends he tags along with, his personal lifestyle can also entice him to have extramarital affairs. For example, even if he works at home but his hobbies are such that there are opportunities to meet other women, then the probability to stray is always there.