Are You Jealous of the Ex Partner of Your Beloved Even Though He/She Belongs to the Past?

Why do we get bogged down by events and people from the past?  How many of us have an issue (and even more than one) with the ex of our current beloved? How many of us allow that person from the past to cloud our present with our loved one?  If you see yourself as one of these people, this article is of interest to you.

Here is the scenario

Jane has met Jack and they are in love.  They both have had past relationships so they are taking it easy, taking time to discover each other.  Both Jane and Jack have learnt lessons of compromise from their past relationship and both are focused on making this relationship work.  But... every time Jane is reminded of Jack's ex, whether it is through conversation or a picture or whatever else, she goes into a green jealous rage and cannot control herself but have an explosive argument about it with Jack.  Jack is not even interested in Jane's previous partners.  As far as he is concerned, even Jane's current friends from the male gender are friends of her ex's and therefore enemies of his.  So he gives her a tough time each time she receives a text or a call for one of her male friends.  Never mind that they have been friends for many years since school.  Let not Jane even think about meeting any of them for a catch up and chat.  Sacrilege, she is being unfaithful.  The story goes in a similar way with regards Jane's views of Jack's friends from the opposite gender.

Can you find any personal similarities in the above story?  If yes, I urge you to read on because help is at bay.  Life is such that we do not have the formula to make all your beloved firends and ex disappear.  But I do have some FREE magical gems to give you that will empower you to experience a loving, fulfilling and trusting relationship with your beloved.

Here goes

- Control your mind and do not let your mind control you. What you focus on grows in proportion.  Beware what the thoughts you let your mind loose on.

- Live in the now.  What can the past do for you right now except provided you with more experience!  So move away from the past.

- Gratitude, gratitude and more gratitude.  Are you not grateful that right now you are with our beloved and that he/she is here and loving you?  So think it, say it and show it.

- What you fear most or want most will manifest because you attract it to you through your thoughts.

- Thoughts become things!!  So mind what your thoughts are creating because these will manifest in your life in one form or another.

Can you see a theme in the above points?  Thoughts, thoughts and mind!!  They can change your whole physiognomy into happiness and joy or they can change it to anxiety, fear and jealousy - You choose!!

So what can you do to change that pattern? The answer is in changing your mindset....

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